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		<title>How BèlNègès Teaches Self-Esteem To Millennials in Haiti</title>
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<p> BèlNègès! When Christina “Krissy” Julme initially conceptualized an online hub for young women in Haiti—some in her circle felt it would never work. First and foremost, she wanted to deliver the self-esteem-building articles on everything from natural hair, to beauty, self-image and self-esteem in Haiti’s official tongue—Creole. Folks thought it was going to be an obstacle. She wanted to build the project as an online community, but with internet access not always being reliable in some parts of Haiti, some were skeptical as to whether her idea would work. </p>
<p><a href="http://kreyolicious.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/BelNeges-Millenials-Haiti-photo.jpg"><img fetchpriority="high" decoding="async" src="https://kalepwa.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/04/How-BelNeges-Teaches-Self-Esteem-To-Millennials-in-Haiti.jpg" alt="BelNeges Millenials Haiti photo" width="575" height="383" class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-16941"  /></a><br /><em>Christina “Krissy” Julme, the founder of BèlNègès (third to the right) poses with other members of her community. </em></p>
<p>But Krissy went to work, regardless, putting her little heart into the project and making sure that each article she wrote would support the site’s motto: “<em>Bote anndan kou deyò-</em>–beauty inside out. She knew she wanted to call the project BèlNègès—the Creole word for “pretty black girl”. Her mission, she had decided, would be multifold: to help more girls believe in themselves and in their abilities and reject the mundane. BèlNègès, she decided, was going to be a resource to encourage girls to consider new models of beauty, and self-image. She thought this was especially vital for girls living in Haiti, because they are hit by problematic perceptions of beauty.</p>
<p>Would BèlNègès catch on? A year after the site’s 2012 official launch, Google Analytics was registering 35,000 monthly visitors to BèlNègès. Then there was the positive feedback from readers—the <em>bèlnègès</em>, as well as the <em>bonego</em>—the name Krissy says she gives to the guy readers. The movement had indeed caught on. </p>
<p><a href="https://kalepwa.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/04/How-BelNeges-Teaches-Self-Esteem-To-Millennials-in-Haiti.png"><img decoding="async" src="https://kalepwa.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/04/How-BelNeges-Teaches-Self-Esteem-To-Millennials-in-Haiti.png" alt="Belneges photoshoot" width="882" height="563" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-16942"  /></a><br /><em>A group of BèlNègès in an outtake from a photoshoot in Port-au-Prince. Photo Credit: Georges Harry Rouzier.</em> </p>
<p>The webpreneur indicates that she doesn’t come across too many challenges in running the site. She has a webmaster who handles the technical aspects of the site. As far as content creation, she took it upon herself to create a content schedule and stick to it. BèlNègès readers can expect three weekly articles. On Mondays, the <em>bèlnègès</em>—the girl readers—can look forward to to an inspirational article on inner and outer beauty. Wednesday is music day, and a song that correlates with the BèlNègès philosophy is featured on the site. On Fridays, the head-BèlNègès-in-charge publishes an article on <a href="http://kreyolicious.com/tag/natural-haiti/">natural hair care</a>, fitness and wellness. Through it all, she tries to emphasize the importance of local and homemade products. And while embracing natural hair is the core of the website, Krissy wants to make it clear that it’s just one of the many rungs in the ladder of self-love.   </p>
<p>BèlNègès is swiftly becoming more than a website. Krissy has launched BèlNègès handbags, and has held conferences attended by BèlNègès readers and fans. She has masterminded several photoshoots that emphasize the brand’s overall message of building a good self-image and loving one’s natural self. </p>
<p>Watch our for <a href="http://kreyolicious.com/tag/belneges">the interview between the site’s founder</a> and Kreyolicious…coming soon. </p>
<p><a href="http://belneges.com/">Visit the BèlNègès Website</a> | <a href="https://www.facebook.com/BoteAnndanKouDeyo">BèlNègès on Facebook</a> | <a href="http://twitter.com/belneges">BèlNègès on Twitter</a></p>
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		<title>How BèlNègès Is Teaching Natural Hair Care And Self-Esteem To Millennials in Haiti, Part 2</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[As you kreyolicious cheries learned in a previous article on Kreyolicious, BèlNègès is an online community based in Haiti. It was founded by Christina “Krissy” Julme, a web entrepreneur who wanted to create a space where she and other girls based in Haiti could discuss self-love, beauty, natural hair care and wellness. Christina “Krissy” Julme, [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>As you kreyolicious cheries learned in a previous article on Kreyolicious, BèlNègès is an online community based in Haiti. It was founded by Christina “Krissy” Julme, a web entrepreneur who wanted to create a space where she and other girls based in Haiti could discuss self-love, beauty, natural hair care and wellness.  </p>
<p><a href="https://kalepwa.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/04/How-BelNeges-Is-Teaching-Natural-Hair-Care-And-Self-Esteem-To.jpg"><img decoding="async" src="https://kalepwa.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/04/How-BelNeges-Is-Teaching-Natural-Hair-Care-And-Self-Esteem-To.jpg" alt="Belneges Julme" width="568" height="568" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-16951"  /></a><br /><em>Christina “Krissy” Julme, the founder of BèlNègès, sporting a tee proclaiming one of the brand’s philosophies. </em></p>
<p>Check out this conversation Kreyolicious had with her in regards to BèlNègès. She also discussed what girls and young women are up to Haiti—and of course the BèlNègès movement in general.</p>
<p>If you missed PART 1, <a href="http://kreyolicious.com/tag/belneges">CLICK HERE TO READ AN OVERVIEW OF THE</a> BÈLNÈGÈS MOVEMENT. </p>
<p><a href="http://kreyolicious.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/bel-neges.jpg"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" src="https://kalepwa.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/04/1555206500_901_How-BelNeges-Is-Teaching-Natural-Hair-Care-And-Self-Esteem-To.jpg" alt="bel neges" width="575" height="373" class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-16547"  /></a></p>
<p><strong>Kreyolicious: Can you recall certain incidents that happened in your early childhood that made an impact on how you perceived beauty?</strong></p>
<p>If we’re going to be talking incidents, there were plenty. But before discussing them, I’d like to tell all the BèlNègès who are reading this article not to let anyone define who they are. You’re never going to be good enough for the majority of the people you’ll come across in your life—and some of the ones you’ll never come across. They will always want you to fit their own mold. It’s not easy, but learn to accept yourself as you are, and work on falling in love with yourself each and everyday and work towards the sort of beauty that’ll never go out of style. </p>
<p>My mom has always told me that when I was born, I was so dark that the midwife nicknamed me Dezèmit. Dezèmit was a woman who lived in our neighborhood. Everybody knew that she was a <em>lougawou</em>, and what was said to me, was that she was the color of charcoal and that she was quite ugly. Even now when I go back to my old neighborhood people will not call me by my real name, but by that name. I was the skinniest person in my household, and at practically every school I attended. I can’t even begin to tell you how much they used to tease me. But that never affected me that much, because ever since I was a little girl, I loved the image that starred back at me in the mirror. </p>
<p>Now that I’m grown, I’m even more [in love with myself]. You think I’m pretty? Well, thank you. You don’t think I’m pretty? Well, thank you. I never resigned myself to thinking that my self-worth was based on people’s perception of my looks, and whether they’d accept me—or not—based on that. How people see me has less than 0.1% to do with the big picture. And this is why, I think it’s seriously important to show girls and young women early on to love themselves as they are. And to concentrate on what’s important, as opposed to what people’s eyes can see.  </p>
<p><a href="https://kalepwa.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/04/1555206500_579_How-BelNeges-Is-Teaching-Natural-Hair-Care-And-Self-Esteem-To.jpg"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" src="https://kalepwa.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/04/1555206500_579_How-BelNeges-Is-Teaching-Natural-Hair-Care-And-Self-Esteem-To.jpg" alt="BelNeges Haiti Millenials" width="833" height="553" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-16959"  /></a><br /><em>Krissy, the Head BèlNègès poses with those whom she call bonego, the male readers and fans of BèlNègès.</em></p>
<p><strong>Kreyolicious: From what you’ve observed, what effects does social media have on young girls in Haiti?</strong></p>
<p>The media and social media have a big influence on the world. They don’t call it the Fourth Power for nothing. They can destroy, but at the same time they can destroy. It’s true that we’re dealing with an audience that’s very emotional, very gullible, and very visual—but if we give that audience a choice—that is, if we create something good that they can read, see, listen and visualize—we’ll have to work less work to do towards creating the world we all dream of. </p>
<p><strong>Kreyolicious: You write your articles in Creole.</strong>  </p>
<p>Language is the best tool to unite us. Language is there to help one create, reflect, exchange and share more. But in order for that to be done, there has to be some structure in place on a national and international level linguistics-wise. Things should be done in the [Creole] language to give it importance, to reinforce its use, to give it value, to enhance it. This way, more people will engage in it. This way the language can have a much more significant representation. That’s what happened with English as a language for many years, and now English is dominant in the majority of countries of the world. </p>
<p>There’s no better way to reinforce to young girls living in Haiti how important it is to love themselves as they are, than to speak to them in their native language, which is Creole. It’s in in this language that we express ourselves the most effectively. It’s in that language that we don’t struggle to make ourselves understood. It’s Creole that correctly translates our realities. It represents us. That’s why the foremost language on BèlNègès is Creole. But there’s going to be a time when we’re going to [communicate in other languages] to reach out to the other <em>bèlnègès</em>, who aren’t Haitian. </p>
<p><a href="https://kalepwa.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/04/1555206501_963_How-BelNeges-Is-Teaching-Natural-Hair-Care-And-Self-Esteem-To.jpg"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" src="https://kalepwa.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/04/1555206501_963_How-BelNeges-Is-Teaching-Natural-Hair-Care-And-Self-Esteem-To.jpg" alt="Bel Neges  Haiti" width="878" height="561" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-16962"  /></a><br /><em>Christina “Krissy” Julme in an outtake from a BèlNègès portrait shoot. </em></p>
<p><strong>Kreyolicious: How do you personally define beauty?</strong></p>
<p>I think that’s the best question from this entire interview. To me, no one can truly see your beauty. But everyone can feel beauty, and feeling that someone is beautiful is the best feeling ever. That sort of beauty can’t be seen by the naked eye. Beauty is what you feel, or what you can make someone else feel. This beauty can be felt when you haven’t combed your hair, when your teeth isn’t brushed yet, when you’re not wearing heels…when you don’t have fake nails on…whether you are in pajamas or without clothes on. Beauty is strength and determination that someone has to work towards what she believes in, even when the whole world is standing in the way. Beauty is knowledge and ability a person has to create a better life.  </p>
<p>Beauty is the way you treat others…with love, with wisdom—without a sense of competitiveness—even when the other person doesn’t deserve it. With beauty, we can change our lives and help others in our circle change their own lives. </p>
<p><a href="https://kalepwa.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/04/1555206501_138_How-BelNeges-Is-Teaching-Natural-Hair-Care-And-Self-Esteem-To.jpg"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" src="https://kalepwa.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/04/1555206501_138_How-BelNeges-Is-Teaching-Natural-Hair-Care-And-Self-Esteem-To.jpg" alt="BelNeges party Haiti" width="533" height="533" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-16964"  /></a><br /><em>A BèlNègès event in Port-au-Prince puts everyone in a fab mood. </em></p>
<p><strong>Kreyolicious: What’s the state of Haitian girls in Haiti?</strong></p>
<p>It’s been about 10 years since I was in need of some motivation to boost up my morale…to make me feel like I’m really living…to help me improve my life. I couldn’t find it in my circle or in my surroundings, or on the internet. At the time, we didn’t have widespread use of the internet the way we do now. But today, BèlNègès has been created for all the girls and young women in Haiti…so that they know they’re not alone. So they know there are people in the same situation as they are, but who are determined to fight to change their lives. It’s not that we’re not aware of how difficult life is for girls in Haiti. We just choose to focus on where we’d like to be, instead of complaining about existing problems. Alone we can go far, but if we hold hands and walk together, we’ll go even further.<br />There’s hope for all the <em>bèlnègès</em> in Haiti and all over the rest of this earth.  </p>
<p><a href="https://kalepwa.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/04/How-BelNeges-Is-Teaching-Natural-Hair-Care-And-Self-Esteem-To.png"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" src="https://kalepwa.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/04/How-BelNeges-Is-Teaching-Natural-Hair-Care-And-Self-Esteem-To.png" alt="Belneges" width="791" height="505" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-16968"  /></a></p>
<p><strong>Kreyolicious: What influences do you feel television programming in Haiti has on young girls in Haiti?</strong></p>
<p>Personally, it’s been more than three years since I’ve watched television—whether Haitian television or foreign broadcasting. I can’t really be critical nor opine on anything. All I can say is, the media has a lot of work to do when it comes to leading positive change in our world. So, I’d like to tell all the <em>bèlnègès</em> out there to be patient, as BèlNègès is working hard for you in regards to that aspect. </p>
<p><strong>Kreyolicious: There’s been some observers who have labeled natural hair enthusiasts Nazis, of course after the police force who were adherents of Adolf Hitler, because they think they go overboard when it comes to the natural hair movement. What do you think?</strong></p>
<p>The word “Nazi” is too harsh. But as should be expected when you’re going down the road to self-improvement, you’ll always going to come across as too aggressive to some people. So, it’s normal for some people to feel that the natural hair movement is going too far. It’s because they don’t know or want to accept the hidden history behind the hair that grows out of our scalp. </p>
<p><a href="http://kreyolicious.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/Belneges.jpg"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" src="https://kalepwa.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/04/1555206501_62_How-BelNeges-Is-Teaching-Natural-Hair-Care-And-Self-Esteem-To.jpg" alt="Belneges" width="575" height="574" class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-16955"  /></a><br /><em>BèlNègès has expanded from a website to a brand that includes handbags, tee-shirts, and even a conference and events.</em> </p>
<p><strong>Kreyolicious: What female figure do you admire the most? </strong></p>
<p>The woman I admire the most, is the woman I’d like to become one day. The woman who’ll be so intelligent that she’ll be able to use that intelligence towards changing the lives of others in her circle. The woman who’ll believe in herself, but who at the same time doesn’t try to bring down anyone—nor does she try to be in competition with others. The type of woman who’s strong, and who will use her strength to support others who have yet to discover their own strength.  </p>
<p>If there is a woman who inspires me, I’d have to say first and foremost it’s my mother. She’s a woman who left her hometown of <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anse-%C3%A0-Veau">Anse-a-Veau</a> during the Macoute years, who didn’t know how to read and write—and yet raised six kids in Haiti—and sent them all—with no help from no man or from the government, though that would have been nice—to college.</p>
<p><a href="http://kreyolicious.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/Belneges-on-the-stage.jpg"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" src="https://kalepwa.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/04/1555206501_340_How-BelNeges-Is-Teaching-Natural-Hair-Care-And-Self-Esteem-To.jpg" alt="Belneges on the stage" width="575" height="766" class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-16953"  /></a><br /><em>Christina “Krissy” Julme at an event in Petionville highlighting BèlNègès.</em></p>
<p><strong>Kreyolicious: Where do you hope to take BèlNègès?</strong></p>
<p>Bèlnègès is going to get where it needs to be with no help from me. That’s because it’s a project that’s bigger than everyone involved with it. The work is plenty, there’s a lot of obstacles, but we’re going to continue fighting so that one day a little girl or a young woman can have somewhere to turn to, when she feels like the world is trying to swallow her. So she can have the means to help her take action and take her life to another level. </p>
<p><a href="http://belneges.com/">Visit the BèlNègès Website</a> | <a href="https://www.facebook.com/BoteAnndanKouDeyo">BèlNègès on Facebook</a> | <a href="http://twitter.com/belneges">BèlNègès on Twitter</a></p>
<p><em>Dear Kreyolicious cheries…to read other articles about what’s happening down in Haiti, and about figures emerging out of Haiti, <a href="http://kreyolicious.com/tag/straight-outta-Haiti">CLICK HERE</a>.</em> </p>
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