Whitney Lubin is a graduate of Florida State University, and is definitely a hair expert. She and her stylist sister share duties running a hair business. At one point, Lubin was actually active as a stylist, but with time, she rounded her role down to business manager. The one-time International Affairs major prides herself on her business and mane sense.

Unlike other hair specialists, Lubin not only emphasizes the appearance of the hair, but also the well-being of the inner self. It’s not for nothing that she has a verse from the Song of Solomon 4:7 highlighted on her website. It reads: “You are altogether beautiful, my darling. And there is no blemish in you.” She understands that looking good on the outside has a direct relation with how one perceives oneself.

She recalls getting her first hair relaxer when she was nine or ten years old. “It was my dad who wanted me to get the relaxer and not my mother,” she recalls. “At the time I just saw it as a annoying grownup thing to do. Getting my hair braided was something I took to be something that all black women did. It was a bonding experience and I loved every hairstyle.”

Today, those who log on Lubin’s website DhatLook, look through her large inventory of hair pieces to enhance their hair grooming experience. But they also come for the hair care instruction videos and self-love messages that she posts. She discussed DhatLook, entrepreneurship, natural hair and its correlation with overall self-image.

What made you start DhatLook?
When I first started DhatLook, it really was just a place I wanted to be able to share all the interesting and inspiring online content I found, and share my own original content relating to my beauty and hair discoveries. In particular I wanted to showcase black beauty. I wanted to create a place where a younger version of me could visit and see black beauty be exalted. Growing up in Pembroke Pines, FL there was a very pervasive social regard to beauty as being to being about skin complexion. I can remember getting defensive whenever I encountered someone who said “You look Haitian,” or “You dress Haitian”. I started to associate these comments with my dark skin complexion because my siblings didn’t receive the same remarks. In the Haitian community I was aware of the ideal to achieve this lighter brighter complexion with the use of creams that included ingredients like mercury and hydroquinone. Substances that have been proven to have adverse affects on our health and skin after prolong use. I watched as my generation grew up in a culture that promoted this whole yellow bone, red-bone ideal. I was hearing this preference in our music, seeing it in our movies, and although the young idealistic me rebelled against this social construct, I didn’t think I could do anything about it. So the first opportunity I had to move from that area I did, and moved to Tallahassee for school.

And in moving there…
While attending Florida State University, I was introduced to a whole new atmosphere that differed from my experience in South Florida. I was able to volunteer and be amongst fellow black women of various shades and really see our diversity not as a competition, but as divine art. My confidence in my beauty evolved from youthful rebellion against the majority thought to personal confidence and pride. Going natural was a pivotal moment that also allowed me to embrace my hair, and beauty despite the stigmas. As I evolved I wanted to share the joy my confidence gave me with other young women like myself who are surrounded by these images and messages that allude to them that they’re not enough in the eyes of some people. That they’re not beautiful enough for some people. If there is one thing I’d like to share via DhatLook is that young women today we don’t need to fight to prove to everyone that we are beautiful. We don’t have to make everyone see us as valuable. We just have to know it, and feel it for ourselves. Maya Angelou said it best “We teach people how to treat us”. And if we want people to see that we are beautiful, we have to first believe it, and act like it too.

As someone who is so very knowledgeable about the hair industry, would you say that there are certain hair looks that go with certain face shapes, and some that do not?
I wouldn’t necessarily say that certain hair looks go best with one person or another. With hairstyles the objective many of times is to accentuate an oval face or give the illusion of a more oval face shape, as this is considered the most desirable look. Over the years my experience has lead to the belief that the most fashion forward women we admire don’t follow these rules. I really think the majority of beauty tips we receive are meant to guide us on learning how to be comfortable with our beauty, but we’re not obligated to stick to them once we’ve developed our confidence. So by all means if you really want to get bangs to hide your forehead, go ahead if that is what will make you happy, but understand that your forehead is not likely to change, your better option is to change how you feel about your forehead. Do that and you’ll find you’ll be able to rock any hairstyle. When you have a talented hairstylist on your team you’ll be able to tailor any look for your individual tastes. The final objective is always to pick styles that accentuate your favorite attributes not hairstyles that hide something.

There’s been some concern on the part of some that with so many people going natural, that the weave and extension industries are going to suffer. What’s your perspective on this?
I think that the industries that are more likely to suffer with this recent natural hair movement are companies that produce chemical products like relaxers, and companies whose products have ingredients that do more harm than good to hair. People these days have so much access to information we won’t just blindly consume what is marketed to us anymore. The weave and extension business I believe will thrive in this new environment. As someone who has been natural for 4+ years my protective style of choice to grow out my natural has been and continues to be weaves and wigs. What I think is happening in the industry is that women are becoming more educated in terms of hair maintenance and are going to take better care of their hair while in their weaves and wigs so that they can fully reap the benefits of these hairstyles. Weave and extensions especially will continue to be an option for women who want versatility with their hairstyles but don’t necessarily want to permanently alter their hair to achieve a desired look.

Lubin rocking a natural hairstyle.

DhatLook fans have enjoyed your YouTube videos which chronicle your natural hair journey. What made you decide to share that part of yourself with your clients and other viewers?
I think chronicling my natural hair journey was important because it allowed me to have something tangible that I could look back on, and use to compare and see progress through. A fear that plagues many newly natural women is this assumption that their hair isn’t growing or can’t grow or there isn’t any progress in the health and condition of their hair. Keeping this video journal really helped me keep myself accountable when it came to my hair goals, and kept me excited when I looked back on my achievements.

Were you named for the singer Whitney Houston?
[Laughter] Yes. My parents didn’t have a name picked out at the time, but Whitney Houston just so happened to be on the cover of a magazine in the hospital waiting room, so when it came time to naming me they choose Whitney in hopes I would be as talented and successful as the late Whitney Houston.

What hair look of this diva do you most like? I’ve seen throwback photos of her in soft-curls in her modeling days, then the natural look for her debut, then afterwards the permed look.
I like all her looks, she was always good at owning her look. But my absolute favorite was the curly hair she was rocking during her “I Wanna Dance With Somebody” video. It was young, fun, and just a little bit wild.

What do you wish all women knew about their hair?
Everything that we consider healthcare can be applied to hair care. I want all women to know that healthy hair rather than “pretty looking hair” is the most important thing you need to concentrate on, because from there you have a canvas to achieve various looks. The most basic thing our hair needs is water, but you should learn how to apply proper hair moisturizing techniques into your routine. There is no magic product or pill for your hair. Your hairstylist is only capable of doing so much in the time they have with you, the majority of your hair-care takes place at home. It’s your responsibility to make sure your using the right techniques.

For those who prefer sew-ins, how can they protect their hair, while having those?
One of the most important things you can do before you install a sew-in is give your hair an overindulgence of TLC. I would deep condition more vigorously the month before an install just so my hair can be in optimal condition. This is because depending on how long you wear your sew-in, you won’t be able to take care of your hair in the same way. And immediately after taking out your sew-in you should repeat and intensely moisturize and condition. If you have leave out finding heat free ways to achieve looks are a must, and if you really can’t avoid using heat on your leave-out than I suggest using extreme caution using heat protectant, and intensive deep treatments weekly to maintain healthy condition of hair.

Now, you’re in a better position to spot trends than most. What have you noted about the hair arena of late?
Women have taken control of educated themselves on haircare. In terms of hair trends, I think we’ve seen an increase of natural and relaxed African American women using protective styles to achieve health and length. Wigs and weaves are staples have always been staples for many women. In today’s face paced environment women want hairstyles that don’t require sitting for long periods of time to achieve. We’ve seen a reemergence of the Janet Jackson Poetic Justice Braids/twist. Young girls to older professional women are rocking this style. Another trend is the use of lace closures for sew-ins in preference of having leave out. With the proper application women are able to achieve a more flawless sew-in. The lace closures allow women to mimic the appearance of a scalp but still achieve a full install. This is a very big trend within the natural hair community for women who want to go with a straight hairstyle but don’t want to have to go through the trouble of applying heat to their hair and/or blending.

You’ve stressed that you don’t want women to think that putting on a piece of hair is the only way to look good, and that there is something much more to it than that.
You have to take care of your hair in the same manner you take care of your teeth, your skin, your body, your mind, and your spirit. Although it is your crown and glory, don’t let it define you. Especially for African American women there’s nothing you should be afraid of concerning your natural hair, and nothing to be ashamed of if you choose to continue to relax, but we should never become hostage to the consequences of bad hair care practices, or bad hair health. I recently featured on my blog DhatLook.com an article written by The Free Movement on this issue. How we feel about ourselves should not be dependent on what we see, but what we know about ourselves. Societies opinions and trends of style and beauty come and go at a rapid pace, trying to keep up can be a tiring battle. What never goes out of style is confidence, and confidence leads women to take better care of themselves. When you live an all around healthy lifestyle that encompasses mental, physical, and spiritual health , confidence is a natural by-product.

What do your parents think of your entrepreneurial ventures?
My parents are business owners and have always been supportive of whatever I’ve chosen to do. They continue to inspire me and motivate me to take risks and not set limitations to success.

You’re extremely passionate about doing philanthropy in the community. What are your latest activities in that area?
As a graduate from Florida State University I try to continue to be active in the community in whatever capacity that is available. I am a member of SISTUHS, Inc., a community service organization for women of color founded on the campus of Florida State University. I volunteer with the local Public Broadcasting Service(PBS) station WPBT Channel 2 in Aventura Florida on a monthly basis so that they can continue to provide our community quality programming that is focused on highlighting our community needs, and spotlighting our diversity. My business partner Jasmine Wheeler is also an inspiration to me because her mother is a caner survivor. Cervical cancer is a major health obstacle to have overcome as a woman, and we are currently working on a project to celebrate these women, we welcome other individuals and businesses who would like to collaborate.

As a beauty entrepreneur, what do you wish to pass to those wishing to go along the same path as yourself?
Have a plan! That doesn’t mean you have to have a 8 page business plan double spaced and typed up. What it means is that you should have an idea of where you want your business to go. It’s important to have a plan because it keeps you from delaying from taking those bold moves you inevitably will have to make to run a successful and competitive business. In the world of business timing can be everything, and having a business plan can be a world of help when it’s time for you to take a leap of faith regarding your business. Another major thing is that there are free-low cost resources everywhere. The Small Business Administration–SBA—is probably the first place I’d suggest someone go to when they have a business idea. They’ll help you flesh it out, and guide you to the proper resources or networking opportunities. This is a local state supported entity that’s sole purpose is to help create more businesses.

You don’t have to have a Master’s of Business Administration to run a successful business, you just need to be an avid learner, and passionate about your vision. Final note I’d like to make is that you’ll find doors opening up everywhere when you make it a mission to be a community member and not only a business owner.

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There are few pageant winner crowns that haven’t found their way on Medjy Mezilus’ head. Mezilus won the Miss Canada Globe tiara in 2012. Two years prior, she won the Miss Ontario Globe title. She was the fourth runner up at an edition of Miss Creole Canada. Even when she doesn’t leave a pageant with the winner’s sash placed across her chest, she carries herself like a winner. Mezilus represented Canada in the Miss Freedom of the World in Kosovo in Kosovo and ranked in the Top 10. The pageant that begun it all was the Miss Black Beauty International, held in the Dominican Republic. She represented Canada and walked off as the pageant winner.

Born and raised in Haiti, Mezilus immigrated to Canada six years ago with her family. She admits that she found the move challenging at first. Once, she made up her mind to learn more about her new environment and concentrate on seeking opportunities, rather than on harping on difficulties she was encountering, all sorts of blessings started to come her way.

How did you feel when you heard your name announced as the winner of the pageant Miss Ontario?

I cannot really explain how I felt on that day. So many things were [going through] my mind and different kinds of feelings. All I can say is…it was just a dream come true, because I was speechless. All I remember [doing] was thanking God for the strength and courage that he gave me, because without Him, nothing is impossible. Then, I thanked my family and everyone else who supported me all the way through the competition. Being Miss Ontario Globe was just amazing. You cannot imagine.

Can you talk a little bit about your experience at the Miss Black Beauty International pageant?

My experience in Miss Black Beauty International was wonderful. Even though at the beginning, I was a little nervous, but I was more excited because it was my first international pageant. Having a chance to meet girls from more than twenty countries, learn from their backgrounds and [make] friendships that will last forever was one of my best experiences. The most important thing for me was winning the crown and bringing it home. It was a pleasure and a great honor for Miss Canada Globe and the Haitian committee even though I was representing Canada.

Do you happen to have some words of wisdom for girls and young women who are entering pageants?

Always remember everyone is unique. Don’t try to be someone else, but always be you, because you are going to be judged on your personality, your confidence, your determination and the best stage presence during the all process. The more prepared you are, the better you will do. So, show your personality both in the interview and on stage too. Get plenty of beauty sleep before the pageant week because it’s going to be a busy week. So my words of wisdom for young girls and young women who are entering pageants: Do not undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others, but always be true to who you are in a very positive way, so others can look up to you too. Most certainly not least: smile, have fun, and live those moments to the fullest.

What does beauty mean to you?

Beauty is something that catches all your senses and your heart, a moment of “wow” that is special to you. And note that, what is beautiful for you, may not be for someone else. The most important meaning of [beauty] is [that it’s] something that comes from the inside. If the inside does not match the outer beauty, then it’s not beauty.

When do you feel the most beautiful?

We all have those moments when we look in the mirror and say “Hey, I’m beautiful”. Feeling beautiful can be something inside of you [that] when you feel it, your outer beauty will show. So, the most important thing for me about being beautiful, is how comfortable I am in my own skin. Also holding your head up high, with poise and self-confidence, is probably the number one quality that women say leads to feeling and looking beautiful at any age.

Let’s talk about hair a little bit. Some prefer natural hairstyles, while others prefer the permed look. What are your thoughts on this, and on hair matters period.

My thought on this is: people should choose whatever makes them feel comfortable and what is best for them. But, I will always support someone who wants to go natural. I have been natural for almost two years and I love it. There are so many styles you can do with a natural hair. Also you can wear hair extensions and come up with different styles.

For the ones who already have natural hair—especially if you have nappy hair—I would like to say it’s very important to continue using shampoo that does not contain sulfates, because sulfates strip hair and end up leaving it dry. When you’re going to bed, the best three things to do are: moisturize, twist or braid your hair and wear a silk bonnet. Also, be sure to deep-condition after shampooing because conditioning is everything when it comes to natural hair health. And for those who are wanting to or [are] thinking about going natural, it’s important to have a hair goal. Ask other people who have natural hair which products are good for your hair type and be patient to see [your hair’s] progress.”

Being crowned a beauty queen is a great accomplishment. What are some of the things you’ve done since earning the crown?

Earning the crown is an accomplishment that’s given me a lot of opportunities to help others. I have been part of different fundraisers, for example: [running marathons] for cancer, helping children with school supplies, and lots of fashion shows that raised money to help others. Also, I have been preparing other girls who are going to represent Canada internationally for the Miss Canada Globe competition. And there’s still more things to come.

How do you stay in shape?

That is the recurrent question from everyone I meet [for the first time]. My answer always is: “It’s that blessing from God.” I can count how many times I’ve gone to a gym. But during summer time, I like biking and enjoy a nice, long walk. Even though I don’t do much to stay in this shape, I do encourage other people to eat healthy, drink a lot of water—and practice any kind of sport they like.

So that’s in terms of physical wellness. Now, in terms of mental wellness, how do you stay positive in your life.

Most of the time, we have no idea what we are supposed to be doing, but the truth is we are far greater, far important, far superior than our minds try to define. I, personally embrace life by being courageous and making decisions that benefit my growth. Stay true to myself, learn and accept to win or lose, [while] enjoying the gift that the Lord has gave us, which is life.

Are you a voracious reader?

Oh yes. I like reading different kinds of books. This helps me to build my knowledge.

If you were to recommend a particular book, what book would you recommend?

But one of the books I can recommend to other people to read is the Bible. I call it The Book of Truth.

When was the last time you went to Haiti?

Unfortunately, I’ve never gotten a chance to go back since I left. But, Haiti is always in my mind and my heart. I just can’t wait to go back, because I have so many things I would like to do when I go back.

What are some things you hope to accomplish in the next couple of years?

The next couple of years, there are a lot of things I want to accomplish. I want to get a [college] diploma with a major in Child Development. To have my own modeling and pageant training space for young girls, so they can have a better understanding about this industry and be successful in a very positive, and have a beautiful blessed family.

Wisdom is a great thing to have. What are some of the things you’ve learned in life so far that you’d like to pass on to others?

In life, I’ve learned to be patient and respect others if you want them to respect you. Love yourself—because when you do—life becomes a lot more beautiful and less stressful. What I’d like to pass on to others is that: No matter how tough life may seem sometimes, God is always there for us. No matter what situation you get yourself into—[if] you want to change it, He will help you to move on. And the most important thing, never let anyone bring you down. Always keep your head held high.

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Naturalistas all over Haiti look to one website to get the deets on maintaining their natural hair: Afro Alice. The site is less than four years old, and was founded by Annie-Christine “Afro Alice” Emilcar, who lives in Port-au-Prince. Its reach is tremendous. It has a thriving community of over 12,000 fans on Facebook, and during any given day, there is a high number of conversations on its Instagram, Twitter and Facebook pages.

Emilcar credits the site’s phenomenal growth to her degree of engagement with Afro Alice readers, her proactive stance towards the natural hair movement and her resourcefulness.

In visiting the site, it’s easy to see why so many natural hair-wearers look to it for inspiration. The site’s founder has detailed videos and tutorials, and tips-filled articles in Creole as well as English for visitors.

Kreyolicious reached out to her to discuss the site and her work, and to get a view of how the natural hair movement is progressing in Haiti.

Kreyolicious: How long have you been natural?

I have been natural for four years…July 2010 to now.

Kreyolicious: What sort of reaction did you get when you started going natural?

When I chopped [off my hair], nobody at home was really surprised. I was very versatile with my hair so a drastic hair cut was expected anytime. People in my [immediate circle]–home, work, etc—started to make fun of me when my hair started to grow [out] and I decided I wouldn’t perm my hair anymore.

Kreyolicious: Did you ever consider going back to your permed style?

Never. I saw it as a challenge to prove to them and to the world that you can go anywhere with your fro and be beautiful. And it worked. More than 30 people in my [immediate circle] went natural after my experience.

Kreyolicious: And what made you launch Afro Alice?

I was always passionate about fashion, makeovers, hair and writing. As I started to blog about my natural hair journey on my personal blog, my friends encouraged me to create a page to share my findings, experience, knowledge with a wider audience than my work and network folks, I created a hair blog and a Facebook page. I called it “Afro” as a [tribute to] this unique heritage from Africa: our hair. And [I added] “Alice”—which means worthy and noble in Celtic.

Above: The blogger behind Afro Alice shows off a natural do to inspire her readers.

Kreyolicious: What challenges did you meet as you launched the site?

I didn’t have any challenges as it was casual and informal at the time. I was doing it for fun…for the fun of writing and for the fun in talking about hair.

Kreyolicious: What sort of reaction did you get when you launched the site?

Everybody welcomed Afro Alice as there was a big need for online natural hair care resource. We are very satisfied with what it’s become. We are the second Facebook page about natural hair [based in Haiti] and are the most-followed natural hair page [based in Haiti].

Kreyolicious: What sort of effect have you seen as a result of the natural hair movement in Haiti?

The natural hair movement is empowering women in Haiti. It’s giving them an opportunity to get to know their true selves and fall in love with it. A lot of women are [going back] to natural and society is slowly starting to accept kinks, coils and curls.

Kreyolicious: Do you think it’s something that’s going to last, or…

​Only time will tell whether it’s a trend or a real change. Too many Haitians remove perm from their hair but keep [the concept of perming engraved] in their minds. ​​It took ages for the white masters during slavery to make us feel [inadequate] with our hair and features. It will take as much time, if not more, for us to see our God-given hair as a heritage that we should nurture and cherish.​

[All photos published here with permission of subject. ]

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Did you know that Haiti, like other spots of the African Dyaspora, has its own natural hair movement going on? Kreyolicious reached out to several active members of this movement to get a full picture of what the movement is like on the island motherland. Annie-Christine Emilcar, who founded and edits the blog Afro Alice, joins me on the subject, as does Princess Eud, a rapper based in Port-au-Prince, and Christina “BèlNègès” Julme, a digital entrepreneur who runs Bèl Nègès, a website that focuses on natural hair, wellness and self-esteem.

Above: Chrissy Julme (second from left), poses with other members of the natural hair and wellness community BèlNègès in Port-au-Prince. Photo Credit: BèlNègès/Georges Harry Rouzier

In reaching out to these three ladies, these five things about the natural hair movement in Haiti were prominent…

1. Natural hair has always been a way of life for some in Haiti. It’s the new consciousness that it comes with that’s new.

Rapper Princess Eud states, “Natural hair was never a stylish trend for women in Haiti. Ever since I was little, I have known women who never had a perm…and even today when you’re in the smaller cities, the majority of women wear their hair naturally, and their hair is always wrapped under a scarf. It’s not until they undo the scarf that you’ll be able see the abundance of beautiful, natural hair.”

“Now, we can say more women in influential roles in Haiti are wearing their hair naturally. And more people on the Internet are making it into a movement, because it was never those type of women who wore their hair naturally. But natural hair is nothing new for women in Haiti.”

Like Princess Eud, Annie-Christine “Afro Alice” Emilcar says she’s pleased with seeing so many embrace natural hair. “I am even seeing women working at the bank rocking their natural hair—something truly spectacular given that natural hair was [always] seen as being unprofessional [in that sector].”

2. Growing up, natural hair wasn’t exactly a welcomed notion, says some.

“They always made me believe that natural hair is worn by people who don’t have the means to [get it permed’] or for girls who aren’t sophisticated enough, or for young girls who haven’t hit adolescence,” recalls Princess Eud of her early years. “To me, getting a perm was a rite of passage that showed that you were really grown up, and it also meant that your economic situation was on a decent level, because you could afford a perm. And I was made to believe to that it made you more beautiful because the hair isn’t so nappy, and it’s not so hard to comb anymore.”

Annie-Christine “Afro Alice” Emilcar remembers all the messages about natural hair that infiltrated her psyche as a kid. “Growing up, my dream was to perm my hair as early as possible,” she recalls. “Having long straight hair was a real fantasy to me. At home, It was a tradition to get a perm during the last year of high school, but I couldn’t wait. I bargained with my mom and relaxed my hair three years earlier. I liked natural hair on rare people but would never imagine I would embrace my natural hair someday. Perm was freedom to me.”

3. Early adopters had a hard time.

Rapper Princess Eud says that she’s been wearing her hair naturally for eleven years now. But the road to naturalhairdom was not exactly paved with diamonds and silver. “At the beginning, it was a bit difficult, even within my own family,” she recalls. “No one else had gone dread in my family before me. They thought it was strange that I had chosen to [go that route with] my hair. Some people thought my head wasn’t on straight, but I didn’t care. Now, everybody’s thinking it’s great. Even my father, who didn’t like the idea of dreads [thinks differently now]. [Now] if someone were to object to my hair, he’s the first one to step in and say, “Why should she have to cut them? Don’t you see how long this girl’s natural hair is. It’s not a weave. It’s her own natural hair.”

Above: Annie-Christine Emilcar, the founder of Afro Alice—the online community for naturals in Haiti—wears her natural curls. Courtesy of Afro Alice.

4.The media plays a role..boy does the media play a role.

The media is a powerful medium in Haiti, as with any other place. Princess Eud contends: “What the media shows the most is what the majority of folks are going to pick up on and follow. [Depending on what they see, they’ll say], ” ‘Don’t you see, it’s what’s in style now. I’m going to cut my hair. I’m going to perm my hair’ or ‘I’m going to wear an afro’.”

So what do young Haitian girls and young women in Haiti see on television, on billboards and on commercials in Haiti? Not themselves, for sure, says Annie-Christine “Afro Alice” Emilcar. “I think TV and ads in magazines have a big impact on the image of young women in Haiti,” Emilcar observes. “So many women feel they are not beautiful because their nose is flat, their lips thick and full, their hair kinky and their skin dark. The media depicts the European ideal of beauty and that severely influences women. A lot of women bleach their skin and sacrifices their hair in favor of long straight or wavy wigs or weaves.” This is why in part, the blogger’s website features women of all colors sporting natural hairstyles. “Everything starts or ends with the mind. Your mind is highly influenced by what you read and see,” Emilcar concludes.

Above: Haiti rapper Princess Eud sports natural hairstyles and gets pretty creative about it. Photo Credit: Samuel Dameus

5. The natural hair movement is more on fire in the USA, Canada, the other islands than it is in Haiti.

Annie-Christine “Afro Alice” Elmicar thinks that the natural hair movement in Haiti hasn’t reached the heights of the ones in other communities. “From what I see in Haiti, there is a “trend” for natural hair,” she observes. “They embrace it less than black women from the U.S. or Canada because they are less educated about haircare. Adding to that, the movement recently started in Haiti—between 2009 and 2010 versus the USA and Canada where it started earlier.”

Princess Eud agrees to some extent. “I can say [women in other countries like the USA, Canada, and other countries] have embraced it more.”

Above: Chrissy Julme, the founder of BèlNègès—a website that gives tips on maintaining and caring for natural hair—strikes a pose. Photo Credit: Pierre Moise.

Whether some like it or not, says the ladies, natural hair is catching on. Says Princess Eud, “I think a lot of people do it, just because they see how cute it is on someone else’s head, and they say to themselves: ‘Why don’t I try that style too?’ I think there are others who are influenced by this beautiful movement, by what they see on the internet. Blogger Afro Alice, for instance, has loads of photos to inspire natural hair wearers.

Julme says, “It’s true that there’s a lot of focus on natural hair right now. But [on the BèlNègès website], I always take the time to remind everyone that hair is only just part of it. We have to be in love with, and take care of every aspect of what makes us.”

Adds Princess Eud, “They [hair enthusiasts] see a lot of beautiful ladies with their beautiful natural hair, and they find it tempting. And I think there are others who do it for an even more meaningful cause…like those who think perms are damaging their hair, that their scalp is getting burned, and so on. In any case, I think it makes a great impact when I’m watching all these beautiful ladies with their natural hair on their head. This shows that we are proud, and we respect ourselves as we are. By the way, I don’t have a problem with those who have permed hair, but I think everyone should wear their hair, however they feel comfortable.”

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Kiana Rouchon, the reigning Miss Black Florida US Ambassador is always on the move. Literally. When she’s not visiting elementary schools to inspire little ones, she’s present at youth empowering events, eager to lend her voice and use her platform to inspire and encourage.

Even before she earned the tiara that sits firmly on her head at every event she attends, she was a busy woman. Currently pursuing a Bachelor’s degree in psychology at Florida International University, with the goal of becoming a licensed professional counselor, Kiana is what a professional psychologist would call a staunch survivor. If you’ll read on, you’ll see what I mean.

As you get to know Kiana through her interview responses, you find out that she’s an avid reader, and a searching soul who knows very well that she does not live on bread alone, or in her case—on quinoa alone. She’s proof that dark days don’t have to be followed by even darker days. You only need to believe, and work hard—work very hard, and then enjoy the fruits of your perseverance.

Kreyolicious: Tell us about yourself. 

I am a 20 year-old, young Haitian female who wants to impact the world! I’m a youth advocate, writer, vegetarian, go-getter and in love with Jesus. The quickest way to my heart is a burrito bowl from Chipotle—just kidding—maybe. My only goal is to make Christ known and glorify him in all that I do.

Kreyolicious: How did you learn about the pageant?

I learned about the Miss Black US Ambassador Scholarship Pageant in 2013 while I was mentoring under an organization named Strong Women, Strong Girls. My co-mentor messaged me on Facebook with the website link included. At first I was a bit hesitant because I never competed in a pageant and was not into pageantry at all! But once I read the mission statement, I was sold. This system was built to be more than a pageant. They were giving young Black women an opportunity to change their communities and at that point, I knew I couldn’t pass on it.

Kreyolicious: Did you have some jitters about entering?

Not at all. I applied in one day and left the rest up to God. If He wanted me to be crowned, it would happen… and it did! It’s been an interesting and amazing journey ever since.

Kreyolicious: What went through your mind as you were being crowned?

“Thank you, Lord!” is what I said on August 21, 2013 and still continue to say. It is only the beginning of His great plan for my life!

Miss Black US Ambassador Kiana Rouchon being presented a certificate for her participation at an elementary school’s Career Day festivities. Photo: Creative Image Photo

Kreyolicious: What’s the most exciting thing that’s happened to you since your crowning?

I would say actually competing in the pageant competition was one of the most exciting weeks in my life. I met so many positive, like-minded women and created the sisterhood of a lifetime. I also conquered a major fear in that one week: stage fright. Years ago, I would tremble while holding a mic or even walking on stage! At the pageant, I had confidence like never before. It was my first time modeling and performing a poem in front of a large crowd and I did it with a huge smile on my face.

Kreyolicious: You know before interviewing you, I decided to look up the meaning of your name. One source states that its origin is Hawaiian for “moon goddess”. Another source says that it means “living with grace.” Did you know this?

I actually did! I was so happy to find that out. Grace is a beautiful attribute.

Kreyolicious: Do you feel pressure to live up to those meanings over the course of your life/from now on?

I don’t know if I would consider myself a “moon goddess”. [Laughter] But, I strive to be graceful daily—in speech and deed. To me, living with grace is an extension of the grace that God gives us every day. A graceful life is honorable!

The reigning Miss Black Florida US Ambassador at an event in Miami. Photo Credit: Creative Fame Photo

Kreyolicious: Lot of us look back to our high school years, and think back to something our parents said that, I don’t know, seemed to make no sense at the time, but now makes plenty of sense. What was it for you?

“Mind your own business.” [Laughter] I say that because I was a big eavesdropper as a kid. Now that I am older and wiser, it easier for me to read between the lines and decode things, which can be a blessing and a curse. The difference is that now I don’t have to eavesdrop to know too much!

Kreyolicious: Speaking of your parents, how do they feel about your being a beauty queen?

My parents are so supportive. They both grew up without much support from their families in their career/academic endeavors and as a result had to change paths. My parents want the best for my brother and I so any opportunity that will help my us to thrive professionally and academically, my mother and father are there to help navigate us. They are my biggest cheerleaders.

Kreyolicious: How do you stay connected to Haitian culture?

Living in South Florida makes that very easy for me. I am connected to many Haitian professionals in my community so I am constantly updated on what is taking place within entertainment and politics. On a deeper level, I just listen to my elders’ stories! Their tales of trial and triumph as well as their yummy home-cooked meals makes me feel proud to be Haitian.

Kreyolicious: Everyone who’s successful has had to overcome an obstacle—if not obstacles. Was that the case with you? .

I know I have a purpose in life because I was a delayed pregnancy. I was born a month late. [I got] robbed at gunpoint and went through depression, suicidal thoughts and self-harm as a pre-teen. I shouldn’t be alive, but I am still here—thanks to God! I was depressed as a result of rejection and feelings of inadequacy as a child. In middle school, some boys would make fun of me because of my dark skin and it bothered me. In 2008, I almost lost my little brother to a strange illness and nearly flunked my freshman year of high school because I was distraught from that experience. That planted seeds of bitterness, anger, strife and rebellion in my heart. I was quite the agnostic growing up, but all I remember is telling God at 15 years old: “If you exist, if you are really out there… please save me from this hole that I am in.” Fast forward a couple of years, I was president of the first graduating class at Alonzo and Tracy Mourning Senior High. Go Sharks! I’m a mentor to 100 little girls, a Miami Dade College Honors grad, Miss Black Florida US Ambassador 2014 and still be a big sister to a 16 year old brother who is alive and well! If I could sum it all up in a quote: “before a breakthrough, some things must be broken!” I had to be broken to be made new.

There she is…Miss Black Florida US Ambassador…

Kreyolicious: This is something I ask of practically every beauty queen that I interview…What is your personal definition of beauty?

True, genuine beauty shines from the inside out. Our physical features only enhance our beauty and can be used to express it respectfully. A beautiful woman is gentle, quiet, fearless, selfless, cheerful regardless of circumstances, encouraging and virtuous. Make-up, nice clothes and great hair is okay, but it cannot cover up the ugliest personality. Think about it: if we took pictures of our souls, minds, attitudes…would we still be beautiful?

Kreyolicious: Now…that’s a great question for all of us to think about…Natural hair and processed hair…what’s your take?

I don’t have a preference, to be honest! I believe that decision depends on the woman. Natural hair is not “better” than extensions or relaxed hair and vice versa. I think people tend to look down on people and judge them based on their hair—or appearance, period—which isn’t fair. I am very happy that black women are embracing their natural roots, though! It is a wonderful thing to walk into a room full of naturalistas.

Kreyolicious: Let’s play a little game, okay? We’re going to imagine that you have your own advice column and I’m going to play your secretary. I love my job because I get to read all the emails coming in and sorting through them. We’re going to pretend that this is one of the emails coming in for the “Ask Kiana” column, okay?

Let’s do it!

Kreyolicious: Okay, awesome. Here goes. Ahem. “Dear Kiana: I am in my senior year in high school. I’m not sure what to do. I love to write, but I’m not sure this will get me anywhere. On the other hand, I know nursing is one of the happening fields out there right now. Should I apply, and then once I make enough money in that field to support myself, I can try to go for a writing career. I don’t want to struggle. ‘What do you think, Kiana?’ Sincerely Yours, The Nursing Scribe.” ‘What’s your advice to this loyal reader?

Dear Nursing Scribe…Writing is a beautiful gift and not many people have it. Take advantage of your craft and start now! Pursuing higher education and a career in Nursing is a great aspiration and I encourage you to achieve your academic goals. In the meantime, find opportunities for your to exercise your love for writing; does your college of choice have a newspaper or writing club? Are there any spoken word events or poetry contests being held in your city? Do you journal often? Is there a topic that you are passionate about that could be written about in a book, magazine or blog? In this day and age, the opportunities are endless. You never know where your writing can take you! You might even find that you didn’t need extra money to get there; all you need is motivation, consistency, patience and passion. Yours Truly, Kiana. [Smiles]

Kreyolicious: Wow, Kiana, as your humble secretary, I have to say that this is some seriously fab advice…What measures do you take to stay fit and looking your best?

My vegetarian diet certainly helps a lot! I stopped eating meat right after my 19th birthday weekend and never went back. Being Haitian, it seems impossible to live on a plant-based diet, but I beat the odds! Eating in portions and drinking in between bites keeps me from overeating—not that I do…but sometimes the food is just too good! [Laughter]. Cardio exercise—spinning, running, etc—helped shed a lot of pounds before the pageant competition and drinking green tea also burns a lot of fat, not to mention it keeps my skin clear.

Kreyolicious: Girl, do you visit Haiti often?

You know, I have not been to Haiti once in my life! Isn’t that unfortunate? I have large families on Mom and Dad’s side who live in Haiti and would love to visit them in the near future.

Kreyolicious: Do you chill to some Haitian music sometimes?

Only when my mom listens to it! I love Nickenson Prudhomme and K’Dans though…music that gets you up and dancing the night away!

Kreyolicious: Have you ever read a book that changed your life…just made you think differently?

Two years ago, I read a book called Not A Fan by Kyle Idleman. It changed the way I walked and talked! I had just gotten serious about my faith and Kyle breaks down the difference between religion and a real relationship with Jesus Christ. That matters because we live in a world that brands Christians as overly pious, intolerant hypocrites. Jesus says that the world will know his people by their love and prioritizing “religious ways” over-renewed minds can prevent us from that. Christians aren’t responsible for what people think, but we have a bigger responsibility—to walk in love and truth as bold, faithful representatives of Christ here on earth.

Giving some inspiration and encouragement to some youngins. Photo Credit: Creative Fame Photography.

Kreyolicious: What songs do you listen to…when you’re looking for a track to motivate you…you know that song that you feel personifies who you are as a person. 

I am a huge fan of Lecrae. An old song of his, “Background,” is my life story right now. Because I am naturally ambitious, there are times when I try to control and organize every part of my life. I am learning to let go and let God take center stage in my life while I stand in the background, trusting Him to work out everything for my good.

Kreyolicious: What’s next for you, missy?

I have a heart for this generation and youth in general. I do hope to counsel children and teens at my own mental health practice one day, but I am not going to sit around waiting for that day to come! I do the best I can to inspire young people as a blogger for Her Path to Success, Inc., an ambassador of change and a woman of God. I believe that every day is an opportunity to make a positive impact, whether it’s in one person’s life or a thousand lives. Whatever is next for me, I’ll use it to do that and more!

Pageant Photo Credit: Creative Fame Photography; others provided by subject.

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As you kreyolicious cheries learned in a previous article on Kreyolicious, BèlNègès is an online community based in Haiti. It was founded by Christina “Krissy” Julme, a web entrepreneur who wanted to create a space where she and other girls based in Haiti could discuss self-love, beauty, natural hair care and wellness.

Christina “Krissy” Julme, the founder of BèlNègès, sporting a tee proclaiming one of the brand’s philosophies.

Check out this conversation Kreyolicious had with her in regards to BèlNègès. She also discussed what girls and young women are up to Haiti—and of course the BèlNègès movement in general.

If you missed PART 1, CLICK HERE TO READ AN OVERVIEW OF THE BÈLNÈGÈS MOVEMENT.

Kreyolicious: Can you recall certain incidents that happened in your early childhood that made an impact on how you perceived beauty?

If we’re going to be talking incidents, there were plenty. But before discussing them, I’d like to tell all the BèlNègès who are reading this article not to let anyone define who they are. You’re never going to be good enough for the majority of the people you’ll come across in your life—and some of the ones you’ll never come across. They will always want you to fit their own mold. It’s not easy, but learn to accept yourself as you are, and work on falling in love with yourself each and everyday and work towards the sort of beauty that’ll never go out of style.

My mom has always told me that when I was born, I was so dark that the midwife nicknamed me Dezèmit. Dezèmit was a woman who lived in our neighborhood. Everybody knew that she was a lougawou, and what was said to me, was that she was the color of charcoal and that she was quite ugly. Even now when I go back to my old neighborhood people will not call me by my real name, but by that name. I was the skinniest person in my household, and at practically every school I attended. I can’t even begin to tell you how much they used to tease me. But that never affected me that much, because ever since I was a little girl, I loved the image that starred back at me in the mirror.

Now that I’m grown, I’m even more [in love with myself]. You think I’m pretty? Well, thank you. You don’t think I’m pretty? Well, thank you. I never resigned myself to thinking that my self-worth was based on people’s perception of my looks, and whether they’d accept me—or not—based on that. How people see me has less than 0.1% to do with the big picture. And this is why, I think it’s seriously important to show girls and young women early on to love themselves as they are. And to concentrate on what’s important, as opposed to what people’s eyes can see.

Krissy, the Head BèlNègès poses with those whom she call bonego, the male readers and fans of BèlNègès.

Kreyolicious: From what you’ve observed, what effects does social media have on young girls in Haiti?

The media and social media have a big influence on the world. They don’t call it the Fourth Power for nothing. They can destroy, but at the same time they can destroy. It’s true that we’re dealing with an audience that’s very emotional, very gullible, and very visual—but if we give that audience a choice—that is, if we create something good that they can read, see, listen and visualize—we’ll have to work less work to do towards creating the world we all dream of.

Kreyolicious: You write your articles in Creole.

Language is the best tool to unite us. Language is there to help one create, reflect, exchange and share more. But in order for that to be done, there has to be some structure in place on a national and international level linguistics-wise. Things should be done in the [Creole] language to give it importance, to reinforce its use, to give it value, to enhance it. This way, more people will engage in it. This way the language can have a much more significant representation. That’s what happened with English as a language for many years, and now English is dominant in the majority of countries of the world.

There’s no better way to reinforce to young girls living in Haiti how important it is to love themselves as they are, than to speak to them in their native language, which is Creole. It’s in in this language that we express ourselves the most effectively. It’s in that language that we don’t struggle to make ourselves understood. It’s Creole that correctly translates our realities. It represents us. That’s why the foremost language on BèlNègès is Creole. But there’s going to be a time when we’re going to [communicate in other languages] to reach out to the other bèlnègès, who aren’t Haitian.

Christina “Krissy” Julme in an outtake from a BèlNègès portrait shoot.

Kreyolicious: How do you personally define beauty?

I think that’s the best question from this entire interview. To me, no one can truly see your beauty. But everyone can feel beauty, and feeling that someone is beautiful is the best feeling ever. That sort of beauty can’t be seen by the naked eye. Beauty is what you feel, or what you can make someone else feel. This beauty can be felt when you haven’t combed your hair, when your teeth isn’t brushed yet, when you’re not wearing heels…when you don’t have fake nails on…whether you are in pajamas or without clothes on. Beauty is strength and determination that someone has to work towards what she believes in, even when the whole world is standing in the way. Beauty is knowledge and ability a person has to create a better life.

Beauty is the way you treat others…with love, with wisdom—without a sense of competitiveness—even when the other person doesn’t deserve it. With beauty, we can change our lives and help others in our circle change their own lives.

A BèlNègès event in Port-au-Prince puts everyone in a fab mood.

Kreyolicious: What’s the state of Haitian girls in Haiti?

It’s been about 10 years since I was in need of some motivation to boost up my morale…to make me feel like I’m really living…to help me improve my life. I couldn’t find it in my circle or in my surroundings, or on the internet. At the time, we didn’t have widespread use of the internet the way we do now. But today, BèlNègès has been created for all the girls and young women in Haiti…so that they know they’re not alone. So they know there are people in the same situation as they are, but who are determined to fight to change their lives. It’s not that we’re not aware of how difficult life is for girls in Haiti. We just choose to focus on where we’d like to be, instead of complaining about existing problems. Alone we can go far, but if we hold hands and walk together, we’ll go even further.
There’s hope for all the bèlnègès in Haiti and all over the rest of this earth.

Kreyolicious: What influences do you feel television programming in Haiti has on young girls in Haiti?

Personally, it’s been more than three years since I’ve watched television—whether Haitian television or foreign broadcasting. I can’t really be critical nor opine on anything. All I can say is, the media has a lot of work to do when it comes to leading positive change in our world. So, I’d like to tell all the bèlnègès out there to be patient, as BèlNègès is working hard for you in regards to that aspect.

Kreyolicious: There’s been some observers who have labeled natural hair enthusiasts Nazis, of course after the police force who were adherents of Adolf Hitler, because they think they go overboard when it comes to the natural hair movement. What do you think?

The word “Nazi” is too harsh. But as should be expected when you’re going down the road to self-improvement, you’ll always going to come across as too aggressive to some people. So, it’s normal for some people to feel that the natural hair movement is going too far. It’s because they don’t know or want to accept the hidden history behind the hair that grows out of our scalp.

BèlNègès has expanded from a website to a brand that includes handbags, tee-shirts, and even a conference and events.

Kreyolicious: What female figure do you admire the most?

The woman I admire the most, is the woman I’d like to become one day. The woman who’ll be so intelligent that she’ll be able to use that intelligence towards changing the lives of others in her circle. The woman who’ll believe in herself, but who at the same time doesn’t try to bring down anyone—nor does she try to be in competition with others. The type of woman who’s strong, and who will use her strength to support others who have yet to discover their own strength.

If there is a woman who inspires me, I’d have to say first and foremost it’s my mother. She’s a woman who left her hometown of Anse-a-Veau during the Macoute years, who didn’t know how to read and write—and yet raised six kids in Haiti—and sent them all—with no help from no man or from the government, though that would have been nice—to college.

Christina “Krissy” Julme at an event in Petionville highlighting BèlNègès.

Kreyolicious: Where do you hope to take BèlNègès?

Bèlnègès is going to get where it needs to be with no help from me. That’s because it’s a project that’s bigger than everyone involved with it. The work is plenty, there’s a lot of obstacles, but we’re going to continue fighting so that one day a little girl or a young woman can have somewhere to turn to, when she feels like the world is trying to swallow her. So she can have the means to help her take action and take her life to another level.

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Canada’s natural hair community is as vibrant as anywhere else, thanks to bloggers like Nel G, who inspires naturalistas all over Canada—and beyond—with Racines Crepues.

Inspired by women and artists she admired like India.Irie, Janelle Monae, Lauryn Hill, who wore non-permed styles, Nel started to do research on natural hair in late 2009. Most of the sites and resources she came across were based in either France or the USA. It occurred to her to start one for the Quebec area to chronicle her transition to natural hair, and to help those who were thinking of doing the same. The then-20-year-old launched Racines Crepues, her natural hair community in late 2009, thereby combining her life-long hobbies of reading and writing with her growing passion for natural hair. Her site is in French, but she has a translation feature on it to assist non-French naturalistas who may stumble upon it.

Nel G’s presence on Facebook is impressive, with her current fan base at 9700 fans. Racines Crepues presence is especially felt on YouTube where Nel G has created over 50 videos and amassed more than 7,000 subscribers. On that platform, she tests and reviews products for her readers, and shows them how to twist and lock their own hair. She also offers fun videos about her natural hair transition journey.

The natural hair entrepreneur’s diligence has been recognized. Racines Crepues recently won an MiB Award—an honor given to Canada-based blogs changing the digital landscape—in the beauty category.

A resident of Montreal, Quebec, the kinks-and-coils-promoting naturalista has a Bachelor’s Degree in French Literature.

Kreyolicious: Our childhoods shape us a great deal. When you were little, what was your perception of hair?

I grew up in Haiti until I was 10, so pretty much everyone had the same kind of hair. Like a lot of black mothers in that time, my mother did not particularly know how to take proper care of my hair. It was very painful to detangle and to comb, so I hated it every time she washed it. I always thought that black hair was coarse and untamable, so I envied the long, straight hair of my friends when I came to live in Canada. I used to put on a skirt on my hair to mimic white people’s hair! [My hair] was permed at 12 like a lot of other little girls, and I thought that was the only thing a black girl could do with her hair.

Kreyolicious: The natural hair movement seems to be all over. What’s the natural hair community like in Canada?

I will talk for Quebec—where I live—because the rest of Canada is big. The natural hair community is less huge than in other places. There are fewer black people in Canada than in the States or in Europe, and as a result, I feel like the black community is more scattered. It’s not always a bad thing, because there are less ghettos and more integration with the general society. I live in a very multicultural place. I feel like black people here in Montreal struggle less to stay connected with their roots because most of us are first and second-generation immigrants, so we feel less the need to make big events about our hair for example. Of course, there are more and more events, but not to the extent of the big hair shows held in the States. There are fewer blogs, few stores and natural hair salons, and almost all of them are concentrated in and around the city of Montreal—which can be very frustrating for people who live far from there.

Kreyolicious: When did you realize that you were a huge force in the natural hair community?

When people started to recognize me on the streets! I’m really shy in real life, so I don’t always know how to react and talk to people. But they’re always so nice to me, and I’m glad that I made such an impression online that people remember my face and name. Also, when I started to receive media invites to some events, and brands wanted me to give advice on their products.

Kreyolicious: What do you think has contributed to the growth of your brand?

I think that I’m genuine in what I do. I just want to help people take better care of their hair and break all the misconceptions we have had about black hair. I also take time to acknowledge and answer emails or comments I get and I try to have a professional, but friendly attitude with my readership.

Kreyolicious: Towards the beginning, did you ever have those moments when you wanted to give up?

In the beginning, I was only doing a kind of public journal or diary to share my own experience and maybe help people like me. I did not expect any kind of money or fame. The moments I wanted to give up came only after a few years, when I felt some people were trying to take advantage of the success I had. What started as a hobby was becoming a heavy workload and I didn’t feel happy anymore about it. I also didn’t like the curve the natural hair community was taking, with more and more fights, shady business, marketing and a lot of consumerism. I do want to grow as person or even as a brand, but not at any cost.

Kreyolicious: How did you keep your head above water?

By reminding myself why and how I started, and by remaining authentic and true to my values. I developed a [set] of ethics, so and now I’m more confident with what I do, and I know when I have to say no. But, the most important thing are the messages I get from my readers everyday, reminding me how I help them with my work. These messages are really encouraging and are the reason I continue the blog. I’m very grateful for that.

Kreyolicious: What advice would you give to those out there who’d like to go natural?

Do research—but don’t go crazy! There is so much online right now…so many websites, videos and hair gurus…so much lingo to learn! Don’t try to emulate someone else’s hair. Don’t be envious of other girls’ texture, curl patterns or length. Work with your own hair. Learn what works for it. It will take time, but be patient. And don’t spend all your money on the newest lines of products. So much of us go natural to save money, yet spend all of our money on every single product we come across. No product does miracles—and most of the time—less is more.

Kreyolicious: And what would you say to someone who’s trying to build an online community?

Each and every person has their own reason to start an online community, so I would say…write down that reason and try to stay focused. Chase opportunities, be quick when they show up, but don’t harass people and don’t be greedy. You have a lot to give before you receive something. Keep your fan base satisfied and they will be the one to bring you new members for your community to grow. Try to learn something, teach something and share as much as you can!

Kreyolicious: How do you stay connected to Haitian culture?

My family—and on another level—the Internet, help me stay connected to my roots. I still speak Creole, eat Haitian food, read the works of Haitian novel writers, and watch some Haitian movies. I will admit it is hard, as I have not gone back to Haiti since I left 15 years ago. I consider myself a “Citizen of the World” mostly. My memories as a child and what I learned in school in Haiti are also the best connection I have with my Haitian roots.

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Natural hair guru Miguerlande Cayo of I Am Nubian salon in Queens, New York knows that the whole world hasn’t gone natural, but is well-aware that permed hair isn’t obsolete. This is probably why her salon caters to clients that wear natural and relaxed hair. She’s the perfect example of the beauty and hair entrepreneur who has marketing and business sense, and has her pulse on beauty industry trends.

If you’re even in the Queens, New York area, be sure to visit her salon at the Rockaway. She and the two other stylists she has on staff will be more than happy to take care of you. Meanwhile…

Here’s her full story and how she got her start!

Kreyolicious: Tell us about yourself and how you got your start as a hairstylist?
I got my start as a stylist by practicing braiding and other things on my daughter. Along the lines my friends and family members would ask me to do simple things to their hair such as wash it, put it in ponytails and just style it anyway I saw fit as long as it was something simple. I enjoyed and appreciated the looks on their faces when they were satisfied and it made me wonder if I could change how someone felt about themselves with the simple things I was doing then what else could I do if I invested in myself into learning more.

A hairstyle created by I Am Nubian NYC stylist Nadege.

Kreyolicious: Growing up, were you like the go-to hairstylist for all the girls in your neighborhood during back-to-school season and every weekend thereafter?
Oh no, absolutely not. Believe it or not, two years ago I didn’t even know how to cornrow. YouTube university was my best friend and the desire to just learn so that I could do more on my daughters head and knowing what went in her hair. At a young age, my parents instilled in me hard work and dedication and I’ve carried that with me always. My parents have been deceased for many years now, and as my angels I can assert that they are very proud of where I started and where I currently am with my business.

Kreyolicious: What do you think hair represents for today’s woman?
There’s a quote that I love that says “when a woman walks in a room , her hair and hairstylist walks in with her” . It not only represents your personality but your identity because it is both personal and public.

Kreyolicious: Some women may be down to their last dollar, and you know their hair will be “did” even if their grocery shopping isn’t. Why do you think that is?
A woman’s hair is a part of her appearance, her self-esteem but also because our hair represents our personality, thoughts and beliefs.

A natural hair style by I am Nubian NYC.

Kreyolicious: Have you ever gotten a hairstyle that you weren’t pleased with? If so…How has that changed you or affected the way you do business?
Yes, absolutely especially because I’m tender-headed, I will take out any hairstyle if it’s gives me a headache. Because of this, I make sure every minute I ask my client if the braid is too tight or if they feel any tension. Before even braiding, I also ask if you are tender-headed because I will take my time to make sure you are as comfortable with my braiding and with the pulling of the crochet.

Kreyolicious: What are two books you’ve read that are so profound that you would read them again and again if they you had time on your hand?
I recently got into a little bit of reading since I have a hectic schedule, but I always make time to read The Bible. It has instilled in me a lot of patience, perseverance and humility.

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Natural hair stylist Miguerlande Cayo runs I Am Nubian, one of the most popular salons for natural and relaxed hair in New York. The Haitian-American entrepreneur and her team of two full-time stylists will braid, crochet, perm and sew clients’ hair—depending on their preferences.

Previously, we spoke about how she got her start in hairstyling. Now, we’re going over the challenges of being a beauty and hair entrepreneur, as well discuss I Am Nubian’s future.

Kreyolicious: You might be biased being that you’re from New York, but when it comes to hair trends…do you think the NYC and Brooklyn set the tone for the rest of the world…
Yes, and I would also add Atlanta, Georgia to that list.

A crochet style from I Am Nubian NYC.

Kreyolicious: Have you had to deal with tough moments?
Absolutely! At times, I’m extremely frustrated and hurt that when I’m overwhelmed I can’t just call my mom or dad and get that reassurance from them. I’ve dealt with people not believing in me, my dreams, my talent. But what I will say is I am forever grateful for the friendships that I do have that are more like family, my friends’ mothers treat me as if I’m their own, and that is very gratifying. These friends that are my families are also my support system, I can call, pop up and we can speak about everything wholeheartedly and pure sincerity and honesty. I am grateful for a man who takes responsibility of being my significant other, and who never steps in the way of my dreams and pushes me to be the best me. In this generation of selfishness, I give thanks for each and everyone of them.

Kreyolicious: You visit Haiti often?
Yes, not as often as I’d like but as often as I can.

Kreyolicious: If Mimi were to press the restart button on her career, where would she take herself and what would she do differently with I am Nubian?
Absolutely not! In all honesty, without my mishaps and the downfalls I wouldn’t appreciate all that I’m blessed with. All of it is a process and I’m still on my journey.

Kreyolicious: Where do you see the I Am Nubian brand five years from today?
I see I Am Nubian expanding from a home salon to a shop outside of my home. I see me adding more stylists [from the] sisterhood. I see us growing even more and continuing participating in humanitarian events and fundraisers.

This concludes Part II of the interview with Miguerlande Cayo! CLICK HERE to check out the first part!

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