Former Miss Teen New York USA Lisa Elizabeth Drouillard has never fallen from the spotlight since her triumphant 2011 crowning. Drouillard, a student at John Jay College studying Criminal Justice, hops at schools and all over the nation to speak to teens. And that’s when she’s not at local events hobnobbing with community leaders.

The beauty queen sounded off to Kreyolicious.com on developing confidence, her roots and her plans for the future.

Tell us about growing up as a New Yorker with Haitian roots.
I am the only girl and the youngest of four, so growing up I was very sheltered. I learned to speak and understand Kreyòl from my grandmother who is bilingual. Growing up as a Haitian-American, my household was and still is so much fun but very disciplined. You know when it is time for fun and time to be serious and respectful. The only challenge was not being allowed to go to any of my friends birthday parties without being chaperoned…Forget about slumber parties. That was an absolute no.

What would you say is your definition of beauty?
My definition of beauty is simply being content with yourself. If you are comfortable wearing your hair back, short, kinky or straight, you do that. Once you are comfortable in your own skin, your true beauty will radiate wherever you go.

Going with this definition of beauty you gave me…is that pretty much how you saw things in high school, or is this something you’ve come to learn?
This is definitely something that I have come to learn. My look is continuously changing. I am seeing things that I once disliked about myself become perfected as I mature both physically and mentally.

Beauty contests have been around since the beginning of times, practically. But they still get the thumbs down from some people, who feel, that well, they are sexist.
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and I respect that. Pageants involve an array of different women. Every woman has a main topic and that would be to win the crown of course, but they also have bullet points and that just may be to get fit, overcome stage freight, or accomplish something people say they couldn’t. The list goes on. It is more than just parading a woman’s body on stage in a swimsuit or a gown, it is truly the lessons learned and the hard work that goes into even competing. It may seem easy, but in all actuality it is far from it.

Do you think of yourself as a feminist?
Having experienced and observed so many things in this industry and throughout my life, I can firmly say that I am a feminist. I feel like women can do anything we put our mind to and we should not be exempt. I am in favor of equality in every sense of the word. However, in my opinion I feel like once we can come together as women and collaborate instead of competing as far as who has the better occupation or the better texture hair etc, we will be respected and more will be given to us.

Think back to that night when you were elected Miss Teen New York. And when you heard your voice announced. What was going through your mind?
I knew whoever won that coveted title [would get] to go to the Bahamas and compete for the national title of Miss Teen USA, so that was all that was going through my mind, me actually being the New York representative going to Bahamas. The best moment of my life by far.

When was the last time you went to Haiti?
I have not been to Haiti, but I am going this summer and I cannot wait to be there. I am sure that I will have a great time.

I remember coming across this article once. It was basically about women in their 30s, 40s, and as old as their 60s and so on, giving advice to younger folks. And one of the things that the author wrote was that “However pretty we think we are, we are three, four, heck even eight times as pretty.” Of course, that’s a paraphrase of what was said, as I can’t locate this said article at the moment. Sometimes, according to this same author, it’s not until years later when we look back at photos of ourselves that we realize how pretty we were. What are your thoughts on this?
That is a really beautiful perception however, I do not agree completely only because we are a work in progress and continuously changing as humans. I know my childhood self looks nothing like who I am today.

Definitely. Now as a beauty queen, who carries herself with such confidence, what advice do you have on developing confidence in one’s self, one’s looks. Having a great self-image, too.
We have to love ourselves first. If one does not love what he or she sees in the mirror—that is a problem. Not only does it cause major insecurities, but it also makes you needy for compliments—as well as [makes him or her] a very easy target to get picked on. It is not always easy to feel so confident with yourself because—lets face it—we all have that one thing that we probably wish we could change about ourselves, but it starts from loving the beautiful person that you are and leaving no room for anyone to tell you otherwise.

Who did you look up to growing up?
There were so many women that I looked up to growing up such as Halle Berry, Jada Pinkett Smith, and Gabrielle Union just to name a few.

You’re a sought after speaker on the motivational speaker circuit. Do you ever get stage fright? Or—freeze out?
All the time! My heart is racing because you do not want to be boring or forget to thank the people who invited you and most importantly, you do not want to forget what you are there to speak about. [Laughter]. Trust me, the mind wanders when you are put in the hot seat.

What would you say is the most rewarding thing about going out there and speaking with youths?
I am older now, but when I was in my reign as a teen and I started doing these speaking engagements, it was really difficult showing these young girls and boys that I am just like them. They would look at me like I am this little princess whose job it is to pretend to care. So, the most rewarding was to leave most of my speaking engagements knowing that I made a positive impact and they understood me, Lisa, not Miss New York Teen. I still continue to do public speaking with the youth around Brooklyn and New York City and it has gotten a lot easier, they come up to me and want a picture or ask me questions that they were afraid to ask out loud.

When you go on your public speaking tours and events, do you tend to formulate your speeches according to your audience and from the feedback you received from previous speaking engagements?
Yes, I do. The fun fact about my speeches is that they are never written or rehearsed. I always ask the person who invited me two things and those are: What is the demographic, and what is the mission statement—if the organization has one. Keeping those two in mind, when I arrive to the event that I am scheduled to speak at, I am ready to go! After my first few words, I am able to feel how receptive my audience is and from there on I know in which direction to go.

With this in mind, what advice do you have for girls out there who may not have the confidence at the moment, who may not believe in themselves, whether their intelligence or beauty? How can they develop that, like now, as opposed to looking back and thinking, “Man, I was pretty fine then and didn’t know it.”
We are human, so we will always doubt ourselves no matter what. But, it is important to surround yourself with people who love you and want to see you do well. A healthy surrounding is a healthy mind set.

What advice do you have for those who are pondering on entering beauty contests?
If beauty pageants are even a thought, then they should absolutely give it a try. If you have to question yourself about something then there is a curiosity. The only way you will know if that is for you, is to give it a try. Now, I am not saying go out into the world and try everything that you are curious about, but be logical and make the decision that is best for you!

What do you appreciate the most in Haitian culture?
The food and the music! I have never been to Haiti and every time I hear Konpa or eat diri ak djon djon, I feel like I am home.

Your parents enrolled you at the Barbizon School of Modeling in Manhattan, and you’ve been modeling and entering pageants since you were 14. Of course when you’re out there, there are times when you don’t win. Or get the crown. How did you deal with those moments of disappointment?
I did not complete my session with Barbizon, I remember the third week I just wanted something different. When I started competing I lost 3 times but that was for other systems, not for Teen USA. I would cry when I lost a pageant because so much goes into it, mentally, physically, and emotionally. I would also vent to my family who are biased so that balanced everything out [Laughter]. Miss New York Teen USA was my first try at that system and I ended up winning. But it was from the lessons learned from the previous pageant systems that have helped me get such an incredible win.

You’re studying Criminal Justice at John Jay College. How is that coming along?
It is coming along great! I love it, one more year and I am finished.

So many young women have turned pageant wins into even bigger dreams. What are your plans?
I have the acting bug now so my plans are to act and definitely continue modeling and hopefully do major ad campaigns. Magazines are fun but it is time to take it to the billboards and big screen! I am ready!

[Photo Credit: Pageant Photo: BENZO]

Not winning the crown at a beauty pageant is not the end of the world. Natacha Sarthou is a prime example of that. In the spring of 2014, she placed as a second runner-up in the Mrs. Haiti International pageant. But the pageant organizers saw enough potential in Sarthou, and the very next day had her compete for the national title. A few months later, Sarthou competed with 64 women from all over the globe, Jacksonville, Florida and her head became the first to carry the Mrs. West Indies International crown.

A mother, and a wife (she and her husband have been married for a decade), Sarthou is active on the philanthropy circuit. She helps build houses in Haiti for families in need. She holds a Bachelors of Business Administration in Finance from Florida International University.

Kreyolicious: When you were in high school, were you pretty popular?

Not at all! I was very quiet, into my studies, and had one or two close friends. It was never my desire or pursuit to become popular. My older sister was the popular one, and after she graduated the same high school, some of her friends who had not yet graduated, accepted me into their circle, so that gave me a little boost. Yet, still I was a quiet person and not a party one.

Kreyolicious: What do you think was the secret to popularity?

I have found that there were different types of groups. And each group was popular to themselves. I guess I was too quiet to really know who was popular in my high school, but I would guess the football players and the cheerleaders. The secret I guess was to be a cheerleader or a football player.

Kreyolicious: What are some of the things you’ve been up to since winning?

I have been doing exactly what I had been doing since 2009, when my platform was birthed—and [that was] raising awareness and funds to build homes for the most vulnerable throughout the Caribbean and Latin America. I am so grateful to all my supporters and donors who have contributed towards building our first house for an impoverished family in Haiti. We are still actively working towards building more homes. There are 1.6 billion people in the world who live in inadequate shelter. By that we mean, settlements which include houses made of mud and sticks, dilapidated huts, and tin shacks where there is no access to clean water and the lack of sanitation. Research indicates that every 17 seconds a child 5 years old and under dies due to these unsanitary living conditions. Through my platform work, we are relocating families from the slums to a new sanitary living environment, providing them with a permanent, concrete home with sanitation, while reducing infant mortality, breaking the cycles of sickness, death and poverty, raising the education level, increasing productivity and boosting the economy.

Kreyolicious: If you were to choose between having beauty or confidence, which would you go for? And you could only choose one!

Definitely it is confidence. I have always believed that there are no ugly people. I seriously and honestly mean that. God created us all, and every good and perfect gift comes from Him. Therefore, He makes all ‘good’. And, ugly is not a good thing. Having said that, I do believe that everyone is uniquely beautiful! I see beauty in every face. So, if we can all grasp the concept that we are fearfully and wonderfully made by God, we do not need to compare ourselves with others. Comparing [oneself] to other people is detrimental to one’s confidence. You will always be your worst critic. Changing your paradigm of thinking, and working on becoming the best you, you can become, is the best and most positive path you can take. You will grow into a more beautiful, stronger and confident you. I am more of a behind-the-scene type of person, I don’t seek to be in the spotlight, but oh, how I have grown into a more confident “me” because I [left] my comfort zone to achieve greater things. My platform brought me to the pageant system. I participated solely to have greater influence in raising awareness to serve the poorest of the poor. In 1990, when I won Miami Orange Bowl Princess, my supervisor at work signed a paper promising to sponsor me $500 to participate in the Miss America Pageant. I never did. And now I found myself in pageantry, enjoyed it, learned a lot, and only because I am on a mission. So confidence is a great attribute that we must all develop and work on all the time if we want to achieve greater things. Now, confidence is not arrogance. When a person is confident, she is comfortable with herself, she finds no need to bring others down. Humility is a great sign of confidence. Pride is not.

Kreyolicious: What measures do you take to stay in shape?

Eating healthful and working out.

Kreyolicious: Is Haiti a place that you visit often?

We do not travel much except within the States. However, I am hoping this December to join Food for the Poor on their mission’s trip to Haiti, to meet the family we built the house for.

Kreyolicious: Young girls and women struggle to love themselves and their bodies. What tips have you learned from your own experience that can help them get on that road to self-love and confidence?

As I mentioned, the best advice is, “Do not compare yourself to others. Work at becoming a better and improved you. Compete with yourself.” Each time you accomplish a task or a personal goal and you get out of your comfort zone, you will be more confident. And lastly, but most importantly, you have got to know that you are fearfully and wonderfully made by God. Yes you are beautiful. But true beauty is what is in your heart. Therefore, work on developing a good character. That is the essence of a person. Character, who you are, determines your legacy, not your looks.

Kreyolicious: Being Mrs. West Indies International is just the beginning. I was reading that you’re involved with a number of organizations. What else is next for you?

Humbly, I honestly do not know. Five years ago, I could not have told you that I would be in pageantry and as Mrs. West Indies International 2014,[be] promoting this cause which began very [humbly] between family and friends. One step at a time, I am strategically working to be a voice for a people who often are forgotten by the rest of the world. My heart’s desire is to raise a large amount of capital to build more homes, but I also know if I can raise greater awareness and inform and inspire others on the reality of this global slum housing crisis where people who are breathing yet have no life, then together we can impact their world. Through adequate housing we can change lives, one house at a time for one family at a time.

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Model Aube Jolicoeur made the cover of Cosmopolitan South Africa last year. She’s been featured in Esquire, and Vogue. “The Project Runway” alumnus is one of the most popular models on the scene. She’s modeled for some of the world’s biggest fashion luxury brands: Altuzarra, Versace, Marc Jacobs, Emilio Pucci, and others. But beyond all her stunning beauty, is a woman who’s a deep thinker, and soul with maverick tendencies.

Kreyolicious: Who was the most stylish person you knew growing up?
Aube Jolicoeur: My mama. I never really grew up with her but I’ve seen photos of her and I’m just like “Wow mama, you had swag”.

Kreyolicious: When you’re on the runway…you don’t play. You exude confidence. Were you always this confident?
To be honest, I don’t know where my confidence comes from on the runway. It’s like I become this other fearless being. Growing up I struggled with insecurity, brought on mainly by bullies in school, and it just kind of stuck with me. I am just now learning to be confident in myself and not let my past define my future.

Photo Credit: Timothy Rosado

Kreyolicious: Is Haiti a place you travel to often?
I try my best to visit at least once a year. After being in the USA for twelve years straight, I returned to Haiti a few years back to surprise my mom and family. Ever since, I made a promise to myself not to let more than a year go between visits.

Kreyolicious: Where do you see yourself five years from today’s date?
Aube Jolicoeur: The difference between where I am now and where I was one year ago is extreme, so it’s difficult to imagine where I will be five years from now. I hope my career will continue to grow, and I also hope to get married and start a family in the next five years.

[Main photo credit: James Hayden]

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Darline Exume is no ordinary medical student. In her fifth year of medical school, she’s a professional model.

She’s the founder of the We Care Haiti Foundation, a non-profit that provides free medical mobile services, medication, and school supplies to residents of Haiti’s rural and remote areas.

She’s a former Miss Progress Haiti, and won the Miss Haiti United Continents title two years ago. Currently, she’s the reigning Miss Grand Haiti International.

Kreyolicious: When you were younger, was there ever an aspect of your physical self that you felt self-conscious about? How did you get over it?
Ever since I was little…and as far as my adult years, there was always an aspect of my physical self that I felt self-conscious about. It always made me feel uncomfortable and uneasy with myself. And when someone would stare at me, I’d always be ready to turn away…or give a quick explanation to explain away the object of all the staring…without being asked. The physical aspect of myself that I’m referring to is my hair. Ever since I was little, I had something called alopecia…it’s a disease that keeps your hair from growing in a particular spot. It could be at the front side of the head, in the center…or at the sides of your head. Mine was on both sides of my head. Because of that, I could never get the hair styles I really wanted. I had to comb my hair in a way that covered the bald spots. Despite a lot of different treatments, I could never find a solution. As I grew older, I learned that I had to keep this little problem from having too much power over my self-confidence. I started to think about what hair style I could put on that would teach me how to love, accept, and live with it. But even in contemplating this, I still lacked the courage to make the change…to shave my head bald. I met with my modeling agent Matti Domingue and she helped me a lot in making this decision. She brought me to a hairstylist and I cut off all my hair. Now, I felt more confident in myself, more secure and comfortable. These days, I don’t think of alopecia as something that bothers me.

Above: Beauty in a poet’s blouse. [Photo Credit: Hugue-Robert Marsan]

Kreyolicious: That’s a very inspiring story…How did you get into modeling?
I started modeling in 2010. I didn’t have any experience. A friend of mine made me register for this beauty contest and I placed second. After that, I received so much encouragement from friends and strangers alike—their saying that I had the talent to become a model. I started to discover it myself. I started taking pictures and posting them on social media. Photographer and designers started to contact me. I started to network with people, and eventually I started entering all these different national and international pageants…including Miss Grand Haiti. I started to follow a lot of popular local and international models just to get a sense of how things were. So, that’s how I started.

Kreyolicious: Do you work out?
Yes, I work out. I do it by sessions. By that I mean…I could work out for three months…stop for three months…then start all over again.

In Port-au-Prince at a modeling event. [Photo Credit: Roroli Light]

Kreyolicious: What’s the most inspiring book you’ve ever read? What made it so inspiring?
The 17 Essential Qualities of a Team Player , a book by John C. Maxwell, which talks about all the qualities a person needs to succeed in life. Some of the qualities are: the ability to adapt, collaborate, communicate, be engaged, prepare, enthusiasm, discipline…among other things. This book is a really great resource for anybody. If you’re dealing with people in any form, you need those qualities. Whichever type of team you’re building…marriage, leadership, sports, work…in any team-building context…whether performance, capacity…behavior…Whether person-to-person or society as a whole…To me, everyone should read this book.

Above: Miss Haiti Earth shows off another dimension of herself. [Photo Credit: Mc Alexander S. Ciceron]

Kreyolicious: Have you ever been really incompetent at something that you are now very good at?
[Laughter] Yes. Everyone has a a weakness at something. What’s important is that you acknowledge the weakness, and take steps to correct it. My weakness was that when I’d be on the runway, and I’d be making my turns…I was really bad at it. As time went by, I learned from other people. Now, I don’t have that problem anymore. I’m glad I was able to see that it was a problem, and that I was able to fix it.

Above: Modeling a piece from the collection of Haitian designer David Andre. [Photo Credit: Mc Alexander S C Photography]

Kreyolicious: Where do you see yourself five years from today?
Five years from today, I’d love to feel be able to see the results of all the work I’m accomplishing now…in my life and the life of others. I’d like the privilege of not having to introduce myself because all the work I did and my accomplishments will have already introduced me and established me, and spoken for me. I’d like to have a kid before I’m thirty. I really love kids.

Above: Wearing a creation by designer Louca Bell. Photo Credit: Jumenus Coreus/Dezobri for Chokarella.

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Aube Jolicoeur is the woman who creates opportunities where there are none, and makes opportunities continue where they could have dried out. She was part of the fourteenth season of “Project Runway”, the fashion reality show. Things could have stopped there if this was another girl, but this is Aube Jolicoeur we’re talking about. She went on to snatch the attention of fashion magazine staple Esquire. She’s modeled for Kanye West, and Mansur Gavriel, John Paul Ataker.

Kreyolicious: Tell us about yourself.
Aube Jolicoeur: Well, I was born in the countryside of Haiti in the small but beautiful village of Jacmel, surrounded by waterfalls and mountains. I grew up on the farm, growing crops and raising animals. I attended an all girls’ Catholic school until I was nine years old, at which time my father sent me to the USA.

Above: Modeling at a show for fashion designer Yves Saint Laurent

Kreyolicious: How did you get your start in modeling?
Aube Jolicoeur: I first got into modeling when I lived in Kentucky during my senior year of high school. I remember driving to Cincinnati, Ohio every weekend because it was the only place I could actually experience things remotely close to modeling. There weren’t any modeling scouts in Kentucky, but everybody always told me I should model.

My first real modelling experience didn’t come until I moved to NYC in late 2013. I accidentally left a shoe with someone and went to pick it up at this warehouse in New York City. When I got there, I was met by a designer by the name of Loris Diran who thought I was there to see him. I told him I was only there for one shoe. He was having a New York Fashion Week show in just a few hours and his models were stuck at another show. Loris immediately asked to see my walk, then he took me to the show location for hair and makeup. At the time, I was wearing a headscarf and under my headscarf was my hair in twists. I wasn’t looking great (to say I was looking a hot mess would be generous), but as soon as they took out my hair into a fro and did my makeup, I felt like a goddess had been born. Walking his show with two looks and being the only black girl on that runway felt unreal. That was my first introduction to modeling in the New York fashion industry. After that, I gained a lot of love for modeling.

Above: Modeling Altuzarra in Paris, France.

Kreyolicious: When do you feel the most beautiful?
Aube Jolicoeur: When I’m fresh out of the shower. I don’t know why but my face just glows.

Above: Photo Credit: Keith Greenbaum

Kreyolicious: Are you friends with other models in the industry?
Oh yes! I have a few girls that I adore very much in the industry. The industry, as if it wasn’t hard enough, can sometimes be a competitive environment. As much as I wish all models could stick together, especially all models of color, that’s not the case. I’ve been fortunate to meet several genuinely nice girls who continue to care and support me. I really appreciate these friends.

Above: Modeling at the Marc Jacob’s show! Get it, Aube.

Kreyolicious: What advice would you give to those who want to break in?
Set goals, work hard, be patient, and try to avoid unrealistic expectations for yourself. Don’t ever give up but at the same time don’t focus too much if you haven’t made it yet. You have to be okay with yourself not making it, just yet. It’s not giving up, it’s being okay if you don’t become this huge star. When I wanted it so badly, it wasn’t working out for me. Finally it happened for me when I finally let go. Not everyone will be a star, if it’s meant to be, it will!! You just have to wait for your time, I believe everyone has their season to bloom. I think of life like this, life a flower. Don’t look at other models who have been and get depressed because you haven’t made it yourself. This model you see is blossoming because it’s her season. If it’s not yours yet, just don’t ever get discourage. In the meantime, focus on yourself. Having great skin and staying fit plays a major role in a model’s success in the fashion industry. Once your time does come, you have to be ready.

This concludes PART I of the interview with model Aube Jolicoeur. Be sure to watch out for PART II! Meanwhile…

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